Hey, I’m The She Who Speaks, and welcome to Soshespeaks.co—a space for anyone who’s ever felt unheard, unseen, or misunderstood.
A Little About Me:
For much of my twenties, I was overwhelmed by grief, depression, and anxiety. I was trying to build a life that no longer suited me. I invested a significant amount of time in rediscovering myself, mainly because those around me struggled to understand the woman I had become, which is more their issue than mine. I focused on healing my trauma, but this journey left me with scars, wounds, and losses.
Naturally, the losses were my relationships with family and friends. I held myself accountable, feeling as if I was disintegrating and that the trauma was consuming me. I earned the reputation of the quiet girl struggling with social situations because I was still trying to understand my identity and was reluctant to embrace the new me. I lost a significant part of myself, including my voice, but guess what? I reclaimed it!
What You’ll Find Here
Soshespeaks.co is about embracing your truth, however chaotic or beautiful. This is a space for self-expression, self-love, and transformation. Here’s what you’ll find:
• Ooh, You Nasty: Sex is a part of being human—and it’s okay to talk about it. This space is dedicated to embracing your sexuality, pleasure, and desires. No shame, no judgment—just honest discussions about sex and empowerment.
• Look Good, Feel Good: Beauty is more than looks. It’s about how we feel in our bodies, carry ourselves, and show up for ourselves. Here, we discuss beauty, fashion, skincare, and body confidence, but we also talk about the importance of nurturing your soul and learning to love the skin you’re in.
• Therapy Me, Please: Healing isn’t linear, and that’s okay. This space is where we get to talk about the hard stuff—trauma, grief, growth—and how we move through it. Whether through therapy, yoga, journaling, or honest conversations, I want to create a community where we can heal together.
• The Personals: This is where I get personal—sharing my own stories, struggles, breakthroughs, and all the messy in-between. It’s authentic. It’s genuine. It’s me. And maybe it’ll help you feel less alone in your journey.
Why I Started This Blog:
I started this blog because I know what it feels like to be silent, to keep things bottled up, and to feel no one is listening. But I also know that when we speak, we heal—and when we heal, we become who we’re meant to be.
I created Soshespeaks.co as a place for those who’ve been told to shrink, hide, or stay quiet. It’s a space to say, “I’m here. I’m not perfect, but I’m real.” Whether you’ve been through trauma, loss, or just a whole lot of life, this space is for you to come as you are. Speak your truth. Share your story. Be part of a community where your voice matters.
Join the Journey:
I understand if you’ve ever felt like you didn’t fit in or that your voice didn’t matter. But it’s time to stop holding back. It’s time to speak up. So grab a cup of tea (or whatever your vibe is) and dive into the stories, advice, and community here. I’m so glad you’re here. Let’s heal, grow, and speak our truths together.